February 18, 2011

Everyone Makes Mistakes.....

I feel like this concept is one that people are having a hard time coming to terms with.

Let me be the first to say... No one is perfect. Actually, I think I mentioned this before, however, I am too lazy to look through my past posts.

What would lead me to a post about this? When it seems like the most "Duh" thought?

I've had many people talk to me this past week (What can I say, I'm a person that you can open up too), and I feel like people are telling me the same things... The mistakes they made, regrets, etc. And they're guilty about it, as if I'm going to judge them.

Psh.

Can I just say, that if you're looking for someone who has made mistakes, you ARE reading her blog?
I have made more mistakes than I could count on both my hands.

But you know what? Am I dwelling on them? Am I letting them overcome what I want to do? 

No.

Why???

Because I have come to terms with the fact that I will make mistakes while I'm on this earth. No one expects me to be perfect, and I'd just like to say now... If you expect someone to be perfect, than you really need to re figure out your life. Don't be pointing fingers unless you can point them at yourself as well.

No one on this earth is perfect. And you know what? Imperfections make us the people we are today. I would honestly not know how to interact with a person who was perfect, because knowing that someone else makes mistakes is a comfort to me. I mean that in the nicest of ways. 

I just, I feel like people are being so hard on themselves lately, and I just feel sad. Sometimes it's a good thing, like when you're hard on yourself for a test, but being hard on yourself because you can't make someone happy?

It's not your fault.

Don't ever change yourself for someone else because they don't like who you are. If you're happy with the way you are, than that's all that matters! No one, who was your friend, would make you change yourself.

Do I make myself clear?

Good.

Now, I know you guys are waiting for the news from my MRI.
I can tell you that they are fantastic results. Frederick has not returned, and I am very, very blessed. I prepared myself for the worst, and received the best. This goes to show, that if it can happen to me, you bet your bottom dollar it can happen to you. (I love that show...)

Now, I'm going to go to sleep, because I have a busy weekend ahead of me. No worries, I will have a post full of pictures and thoughts, and everything, by Monday. Until then, feel free to leave your thoughts, or look through my past posts.

And just know, someone out there loves you for who you are, so if you changed, then how could they find you?

<3 Chels

2 comments:

Kynia said...

Dear Chelsea,
*ahem*
You.are.FANTASTIC.
and so is your blog.
i've said it once, and i'll say it again:
You are my Athena. Every word that comes out of your mouth is something that i need to hear.
So, thank you. thank you for being my friend, for putting up with me, and for helping me in more ways than you could ever imagine.

i am happy to hear that Frederick hasn't returned, and, to be honest, i never really liked him in the first place. hopefully he gets the hint and stays away FOREVVVERRR!

Love and Waffles and Syrup:
-Kynia

Em and Ty said...

CHELSEa! I always love your posts, too. You really do give me a little something I totally needed to hear. I agree. People are too hard on themselves. It's like we can't accept imperfection as part of us. I know it's hard for me sometimes. Thanks for sharing your thoughts! You're my super hero!

Also, I am glad that Frederick hasn't returned. He can take a forever vacation. I was saying my prayers for you! :0) Love ya!
EM